Are you sometimes overwhelmed with negative thinking – perhaps being downright rude to yourself? Criticizing yourself for not doing enough?
I sure can relate. I guess we’ve all been there; having bad days and moments of self-doubt. Days in which you fall short of your own expectations, and instead of treating it as a learning opportunity, you beat yourself up about it.
I want you to remember:
YOU can start over, each day. The best time for new beginnings is NOW.
It´s okay to have setbacks… it´s okay to draw a line in the sand and start over. Just make sure you are moving the line forward – in a positive direction.
Move in the directions of your dreams and goals. Take baby steps, but take steps that stop you from being stuck.
We all want to reach the top of the mountain and feel that we have achieved something amazing. We want to feel alive, happy and excited. We want to be financially independent and work with what we love.
Whatever you are working towards, and however far you still have to go, let me tell you that; YOU CAN DO IT!
Keep chasing your dream. Don´t give up! It doesn’t matter if you are moving fast or slow, only that you keep moving!
Here´s the thing…
The quality of your life is determined by how you FEEL about yourself, and how you THINK of yourself!
That´s why I want YOU to make a firm decision TODAY to boost and improve your self-esteem!
Doing so will empower you to do more, love more, give more, become more and live more.
All success in life comes from a place of self-confidence. A deep trust in yourself, that you are worthy of it all and that you deserve the best in life.
Imagine your mind as a garden. If you do not deliberately take good care of it, weeds (negative thinking) will grow and take over. If weeds dominate your garden, it will not be the healthy, vital and beautiful garden that you need to feel happy and energized.
Imagine that you eliminate all weed. Let go of all negative thinking and all worries. Just let it go.
And plant new fresh seeds in your garden, by repeating the following three sentences every day:
1. I love myself. I give myself permission to follow my heart and walk MY path.
2. I am the best. I can do anything I put my mind to. I am unstoppable!
3. I am kindness. I bring authenticity, love, and happiness to myself and others.
Try this practice for a few weeks and see how it shifts your mindset as you go about your day!
Happy New Year Lovelies! I hope you got a fabulous start to the new year. My New Year’s Eve party consisted of dinner and dance with my children and all their friends, a festive joyful evening for sure.
It’s been an incredible year for me in so many ways. I´ve hosted some fabulous international photography workshops and online training programs for women all over the world, traveled to beautiful places in search of wonderful stories to capture, lots of business growth, expansion, and one-on-one coaching. Simply fabulous!
Every year I like to share something unique with my readers, friends and fellow creatives and this year I’ve put together a motivational program and you’re invited to join.
Ebeltoft is a cozy, beautiful, laidback town of cobbled streets and crooked old houses. Ebeltoft is not only one of Denmark’s most picturesque destinations but also a personal favorite of mine.
I´ve spend significant parts of my childhood in Ebeltoft, as my grandparents had their home here. I still keep coming back each year, to walk down memory lane, connect with some of my happiest times and boost my creativity soul.
Unfortunately, my grandma passed this year after years with Dementia. Therefore it was even more important for me to go back and honor her. My grandparents were utterly fantastic.
Every minute with them was about creating, crafting, appreciating nature and enjoying animals. Values that are so deeply rooted in me today and are the real foundation of my work. Going back always connects me with such intense feelings of gratefulness.
The days with pretty sunlight are soon gone! If you live in a Country where it gets dark during fall and winter I have good news for you. You can still create beautiful photos!
In my upcoming photography course I teach all about shooting with natural light. I never EVER use a flash. Not even in the darkest time during winter – and that´s a challenge because it can get pretty dark in Denmark.
I used to panic when winter came. Afraid I would not be able to do my work. I tested shooting with flash, rented a professional photo studio – but it´s was not for me – not my style.
I adore natural light and with time I learned that it´s possible to capture beautiful photos even in low light conditions.
As winter is slowly arriving, I share my best tips to shooting in low light.
Five Tips for Taking Photos in Low Light
1. Shoot in RAW
The photos on this page was all shot during times with little daylight available. In most photos I will emphase the darker mood in the photo, but sometimes I also make it as bright as I can for a more clean and fresh look – it´s possible as long as you shoot in RAW. When you work on a RAW file in Lightroom or Photoshop ACR you can really brighten the photo a whole lot without loosing quality. I´ts magic. It´s a lifesaver! Use the exposure slider, the shadow slider and the white slider to lift the shadows and brighten the photos.
2. Raise ISO
I remember when I was a beginner in photography I was told that I should always keep ISO on 100 for best image quality. That´s true, but also a very limiting rule to follow. One of my tips is to play as much with ISO as you can. Take some test shots and notice how high you can take ISO with your camera without seeing to much noise in the photo.
This knowledge will help you tremendously when you shoot in low light. During the darkest winter hours I often have my ISO set to around 800 or 1200 ISO. It´s very different from camera to camera how well it performs with hight ISO settings, so it´s important to test it. Play with it. Don´t be afraid – ISO can be your new best friend.
3. NO FLASH – Use window light
Never turn on artificial light in the room when taking photos, it will add yellow tones to your image. Also avoid any type of flash – especially on-camera flash. Simply use window light. Make sure to place yourself as close to a window as possible. The bigger the window the better, but a small window can do the job as well. Your photos might look dark when you look at the back of your camera, but don´t stress, you will do the last work in post production.
4. Use a tripod
If you use a tripod for stability you can allow the camera to let in even more light, without the risk of getting unsharp photo. When the camera is stable and out of your hands you can lower shutter speed + aperture . This will give you brighter photos and a tack sharp photo. Remember to use a remote so you don´t touch the camera with your hands.
5. Edit in RAW
This is by far the most important tip! As long as you shoot in RAW, you can do wonders in editing. No matter if you use Lightroom or Photoshop ACR you can get amazing results. When I shoot in low light I allow my photos to look darker on the back of my camera than I normally would accept.
When I look at the back of my camera I can see what´s going on in the image but I can´t see any details because the image is to dark. Then when when I get the photo into my editing program I immediately raise Exposure to take a closer look at the image quality. From there I do my normal editing.
In my photography workshop I include ALL my SECRETS on how to edit your photos like a pro. My tricks are EASY to learn and everybody can do it!
(NB. This post is written with photographers in mind, but no matter what kind of creative professional you are, you´ll be able to find helpful tips and great value in this blog post).
There is an ugly truth about working for free. When you work for free, you and your work will be marked as “worthless.” It’s based on human psychology.
So if you dream of turning your photographic passion into a successful + profitable business, it´s time to start thinking about what your work is worth! It´s time to get paid!
After all, without money there´s no business, right!
I know it can be difficult to move beyond thinking, “I´m not sure I´m good enough to get paid” or I´m not sure I´m a real photographer”.
I remember when I had my first big magazine interview back in 2010 I was still so new in the photography world, and I was ashamed to call myself a photographer. I mean WHO WAS I to claim that titel?
When the journalist came to my home for the interview she asked; “how is it to be a photographer?”
I felt myself blushing with embarassment as I whispered “I don´t really feel like a photographer”.
The journalist not even blinked when she said; “well, honey, I got news for you. The titel photographer is not a protected titel. Anyone can call themselves photographers. It´s up to you to decide if you want to PLAY photographer or if you want to BE a photographer. The only person who decide this is YOU. But you better decide fast, because when people start calling you after this interview has been published, you need to be able to say out loud: I´m a photographer and THIS is what I charge – otherwise you´ll make no money!
It was a big A-HA moment.
Perhaps you know the feeling?
During my time as a coach, I´ve seen many talented photographers charge way less than they are worth! No matter how great an artist or photographer you are, you will never make it unless you think in business terms – you need to learn how to ask for what you are worth!
It´s time to take yourself seriously.
It´s time to respect you work and time.
Are you ready?
Ask yourself the following questions: Do I really want this? Do I want to make a living out of being a photographer? Know that it is OK to say no and to keep this passion as a hobby. If as a hobby, you should consider getting paid anyway…after all your time and effort should count for something, right!
If the answer is yes, if you can feel deep in your heart that you want this, despite your insecurities about your future success, then you need to know the following truths:
No matter how great an artist you are, you will never make it unless you think in business terms – you need to learn how to ask for what you are worth!
If you are able to combine confidence in your artistic ability with some simple business rules and some networking, you will quickly grow into a successful business owner.
One of the core fundamentals in business, that leads to success is your pricing structure.
Let´s compare your photography business with an exclusive fashion boutique. When I was a child, I would walk past expensive shops with my mother. She would “window shop” (as we did not have much money) in the most exclusive stores in town and tell me that these shops would pay their rent by selling only one coat a day.
These shops did not work under pressure and they had time to give their best service to their customers. Their business branding promised this!
The same holds true for photographers! You can set a low fee, get lot´s of price-shopping clients to book you, work your butt of and possible burn out! Or you can decide to charge a fee that will make sure that you don´t work under pressure and support the amount of time you spend on a client.
That way you´ll feel happy when you work and have more time with your family. The higher your price, the more time you have to spoil your clients, do your finest post processing and brand your business.
Let´s be honest here; price-shopping clients often does not value all the work and effort you put into it, but maybe you already know that?
Been there, done that – never again 🙂
How much work do you actually do for each client, start to finish?
Think about the following:
Mail correspondence and phone calls: Time spent telling your clients how you work, what they should bring and how they should prepare for each shoot.
Preparation and planning: location, styling, set up, and packing gear.
Transportation to and from locations, or your studio rental fees.
Pre-shoot time, needed to make clients relax for the camera.
Styling your client: doing this yourself or, perhaps, hiring a make-up artist.
The Photo shoot: probably 1-2 hours.
Image selection: Time spent sorting through hundreds of images to select the best ones
Creating an online gallery for your client to make their selection
Printing – if this is a service you wish to offer.
Packing and posting CD-room or prints for the client.
Customer service follow-up
How many hours do you think all this will take you?
Be realistic…it does take a lot of time to do your best in each of these areas.
If you want enough time to do good and set yourself apart from the competion, then you must set your price to allow for this.
The old saying,’ time is money’ is very true.
When you work, you spend time away from your family – so make sure you get paid well. Make it worth it!
So HOW do you deal with price-shoppers?
Strategy 1: Educate them
Explain your value and how that value translate into the photo session and the final result.
Talk about the experience they will get with you, how much fun you´ll have, how they should prepare for the shoot, tell them why you love doing what you do. Show excitement and entusiasme.
Nothing sells like honest passion, that comes straight from your heart! You don´t even need to be a mean sales person – isn´t that just wonderful 🙂
Strategy 2: Don´t deal with them
Most photographers can smell price-shoppers on a fare distant. The best way is to be upfront fast. Let me give you an example; sometimes I get an email saying something like this:
“Hi, we love your work and we own a shop, (clothing line, hat shop, jewellery or similar – you name it). We would love to hire you to shoot our new line. We know some non-professional models that can model and who can do their makeup themselves. We can not pay you, but you will get free food and good exposure.“
This is where I must laugh out loud! And believe me I do! As we all know free food and good exposure does NOT pay rent, school fee, heat…ect, true right!
I always give them a nice answer back, thanking them for thinking of me, kindly letting them know that it´s not how things roll in my little business.
I don´t care how cool, or how amazing their products are – I don´t work for free, it´s as simple as that! Voila!
The more you value the work you do, the more the customers will value your work too.
Whenever I have a client, I put aside two full days of work, to ensure I don´t get stressed and to make sure I perform my best. On the day of the shoot, I prepare, plan and pack everything I need.
Then I drive to the location. I shoot the session, go home and unpack everything in my studio. The next day, I sit in front of the computer and do the post processing.
I really don´t want to rush things – as getting great, timeless pictures, in good quality for my clients is the most important thing for me. Each of these hours must be accounted for in my fee.
Therefore, I set a price that makes sure that I´m happy during ALL my working hours. It keeps me very motivated to know I do what I LOVE and that I get well paid while doing it. I want you to consider all of these things when you decide on your price.
Of course, you have to begin somewhere. In the beginning, you might need to charge less to get the ball rolling. I did this too. But don’t let this period last too long. Make an effort to raise your prices more than once during your first years.
The happier you are with the money your clients are paying you, the better you will perform!
To run a successful business, you need to avoid stress and make sure that you are happy and relaxed. Remember, an over-stressed mind cannot think creatively and your inner passion/creativity battery will shut down.
( I know this happens to too many photographers and creative professionals).
There is no business if you don’t take care of you!
Take some time now to think about how you will charge for your work. Then commit to raising those prices every month, or every second month, until you are at a level that is perfect for you. Only you can decide what that price is. Ask your heart (not your insecure mind) what that price should be. Now write down your payment plan and stick to it.
If you still feel that you are not good enough to get paid, then let me tell you: all art is work! Often many hours of work! All work that you do is worth something. Your time should count for something..
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